Thursday, February 18, 2010

Closure

Richard decided to pull some dumb moves today. In what he called a "joke," he made slanderous comments about HCSA. I confronted him about it via facebook message (though I unfriended him a few days ago).

We got some things out in the air. We cleared some things up. By no means did we make amends.

But that's okay. I said things I've been needing to say, and I heard things I needed to hear. And by the end of our argument (for I'm pretty certain that's what it was), I came to terms with what had happened. Rather quickly I went from being distraught at the personal attacks on my character to laughing, because he was unwittingly making a fool of himself.

In short, I got the closure I needed. I can move on.

Saturday, February 6, 2010

Woohoo...

So, somehow, in the last year and a half, I've managed to write 100 posts in this blog. That's pathetic.

Anyway, I'm really just hear to post a general update, I guess, and to be sure that I can at least get in one entry per month.

Life in Norman has resumed to its hectic self. As expected, I haven't seen Shannon really (except once, a few days before classes started for the semester). Cari is off in France. Jay, to many people's surprise, has come back this semester. I made amends with him near the end of the previous semester, in the midst of all the drama. We hang out basically like before. Kate is busy, as expected. Eddie is... himself, I guess? I see him quite frequently, but hardly ever without the company of Kyle, his boyfriend. It's fine. Kyle's nice. We're friends. It's all good. But yeah, I'm probably jealous of Eddie's time. And, admittedly, jealous of the relationship itself.

Hoboy, Singles' Awareness Day is coming up. But I've got plans. Megan and I are going to watch the Bring It On marathon on ABC Family. I can't think of a better way to spend the day than eating popcorn and trash-talking cheerleaders (who always get the guy in the end).

Speaking of Megan, she and I are officially planning to live together next year, along with Cari, in Traditions. We still need one more roommate, but I guess there's always the random assignment option for the fourth roomie. Crossing my fingers that we don't end up with someone horrible.

I'm hopeful in regards to having a room waiver next year. I don't plan to be an RSA president, but I'm not dropping out of HCSA either. I'm planning to go for Programming Director. The other person who was thinking of running texted me this morning and asked if I wanted that position, because she was thinking of it too. But she said she didn't want to compete with me for it and she'd go for Traditions West President instead. I feel a bit guilty, but she made it sound like she was totally okay with it, which is nice.

Let's see... And... pretty sure Taylor the Latte Boy has hit the friend zone. But I'll be home for Spring Break, so you can bet I'll be around Caribou a lot anyway.